Reprint from 2006, Words from a Friend

(Going on a field trip today with Hannah’s 6th grade class. Can’t wait to see GOD’s handiwork in nature. Love the outdoors. I know I will have pictures to share from our day hike. Thought while I was out today, I’d share an old entry for someone out there who needs encouragement. It’s such a rewarding feeling for me to read this old post and realize how much more I live and believe God’s Word. He’s done amazing work in my heart over the past three years. Praise Him!)

Okay going back in time now. Here we go:

Sunday, my family and I went to a potluck gathering with seven other families. And honestly, I didn’t want to be there. I was struggling with my ability to parent my soon-to-be 12 year-old son. I felt weak emotionally and spiritually.

I enjoyed good conversation with a couple of my friends. Then watched the kids fill up water guns and get all wet. I noticed my daughter, Hannah who is 7, sitting off in the distance, just watching. My heart broke.

My friend Terry and I started reminiscing about our own childhood. We both remember being like Hannah, cautious in large groups. We felt shy and insecure during our childhood years and both recall being the last person or two to be chosen for team games like Red Rover. That rejection hurts. I grieved hoping that was not Hannah’s reason for just watching. Hopefully she just didn’t want to get wet.

“Aren’t you glad we are chosen by the King?” Terry said.

“Yes!” I said as my tears filled my eyes hidden behind my sunglasses.

I’m amazed at my God, He spoke through Terry’s nine words to encourage me and remind me of my true worth. And to think I wanted to stay home. I would’ve missed that precious truth from God.

As much as I shy away from group settings, I realize more and more how much I need the body of Christ. I cannot do this faith journey without others. I need the one-on-ones and the group settings. Others are strong when I am weak and vice versa. I believe that is why God in Genesis 3:18, “It is not good for man to be alone.” Solitude yes, isolation no!

I send out the same truth to all of you, ” You are chosen by the King.”